Performance slipped
“You've really dropped the ball lately.”
“I've noticed a change in your work — what's going on?”
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Performance slipped
“You've really dropped the ball lately.”
“I've noticed a change in your work — what's going on?”
Missed due dates
“This is late again.”
“The due date moved past us — let's figure out what blocked it.”
Someone's struggling
“You seem off, everything okay?”
“I want to check in — no agenda. How are you really doing?”
Saying no
“I guess I can try to fit it in.”
“I can't take this on without dropping X — which matters more?”
Handling defensiveness
“Don't get defensive.”
“I can tell this landed hard — help me understand your side.”
The full guide gives you language for the conversations that come with leading people.
Because leadership isn't about having all the answers. It's about knowing how to begin the conversation.
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